Also, my birthday is Oct 22nd. Jack, I see you take a hiatus from touring on the 19th, just in time to celebrate! I hate to propose any hard and firm plans because of any Rosslyn flareups or Interface failures, but maybe we could do a little something sweet either on the 22nd or somewhere around the date of the 22nd. I'd like to spend it with you two in some small way, if you'd like.
And, somewhere around the time of Samhain and/or Dia de Los Muertos (or the holidays, in general) I'd like to submit for both of your consideration a hand-fasting ceremony between the three of us. It's a sacred European pagan tradition of creating an unofficial officially recognized union between couples that's observed for a year and a day. Their coupleship is formally, but necessarily legally (unless you go to court, fill out paperwork) recognized for a year and a day to allow them ample time together while they decide if they'd like to make it a lifetime commitment. Some view hand-fasting as akin to an engagement or like a promise-ring ceremony. Now, at the end of a year and a day, we don't have to get legally married (well, it'd be difficult for the three of us to do so anyway), but we could just extend the hand-fasting vows indefinitely (renew each year?) until such time as the three of us are in a position to make a real world determination of how we want to define our threesome. It seems to me, I would actually need to be in each of your lives for that to happen. ♡
TWO ARTICLES ON HANDFASTING:
https://offbeatbride.com/pagan-weddings/
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handfasting_(Neopaganism)
Note: Since our lives can be chaotic, for any holiday plans going forward, we might do what Eddie and I and Paul did last year: keep it kind of loosey goosey and if the plans can't come together one night, then try again the next night or in a few nights time. Tragically, we have to be very flexible in the Underground since it's so temperamental and lord knows my life is also.
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